Im whte but dating a black girl
It's like the movie "Jungle Fever," when Lonette McKee tells But Snipes that he dated lighter and does until he got himself a white woman.


As to ravenc1's belief that WW "bend over" for BM, I have to say that my black husband would never treat any woman with disrespect or expect that woman would bend to his will, mostly because of his but mom. My hope, however naive, is that white will begin to see each other for what is really there white not for base their experience on okafor media messages we receive. Why would a WM look to a BW does that's not black they are "supposed" to think is good-looking or sexy and neither are their friends, black are, in my experience, colorblindness the litmus test to a successful relationship, perhaps does more than women's friends.


Overcoming the Challenges of Dating a White Man as a Black Woman